It doesn't have anything to do with him not getting hugged. More likely than not, this guy was sexually abused, and more likely than not, the person that abused him was abused. Sexually abuse is a sick and viscious cycle that isn't easily broken. My wife works with these people and kids that have been abused every day, it's really sad. No matter what she does to help these kids the odds are likely that not only will the live a really poor life but they will find themselves as the abuser some day...
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