Moving article about Tim Parmeter

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Originally Posted by Knownothing

WOW. This lady kills his son and herself. Leaves a picture of the kid with Blue Puffy lips that she took while she was killing him. Leaves him a letter saying it's all his fault. Has the kid scribble on it and says it's the son saying thanks and you want to blame Tim for speaking about it. That is all you got is that Tim is messed up for talking about it. Man that is messed up. I would not be able to do as good as Tim is doing right now. I would probably be laying in a gutter with an empty bottle of Jagermeister laying next to me.

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I would too, just thinking tragic thoughts like those just makes me happy for what I have!

I'll admit it - I shed tear reading this. I just don't understand how people can hate other people like this. It's sick. It's wrong. It's mad.

I hate her for hating and I don't even know her. I guess I wish I had never read this.

Terrible.. my son is almost 2 and I can't imagine. I wish I hadn't read that.

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Originally Posted by ISUFan22

I'll admit it - I shed tear reading this. I just don't understand how people can hate other people like this. It's sick. It's wrong. It's mad.

I hate her for hating and I don't even know her. I guess I wish I had never read this.

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Hey I'm willing to admit I did too, its the very end that got me. The great writing helped add to the emotional depth for me.

Tim is a close personal friend of mine. I had the pleasure of working for him for 3 years in Scottsdale as his assistant. This was an absolute tragedy that I can not even begin to try and understand the feelings Par is going through/went through.

He was very candid in that interview, but you have to know Tim. Thats just the way he is. I think in some way it might have been therapuetic for him, I dont know.

I didnt get to speak with him much after he moved on to Eastern AZ and I got out of the coaching biz, but he truly is one hell of a coach.

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Originally Posted by ISUFan22

I'll admit it - I shed tear reading this. I just don't understand how people can hate other people like this. It's sick. It's wrong. It's mad.

I hate her for hating and I don't even know her. I guess I wish I had never read this.

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Same here... On points...

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Originally Posted by ahaselhu

I don't want to hijack this thread with a discussion of whether or not evil exists, but this is more than mental illness. If she killed herself, or killed him, maybe that's mental illness. Killing his 2 year old son to spite him, that's evil.

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I'm actually writing my dissertation on evil. I believe it exists.

This was one messed up story.

What a terrible thing. No one wins in that incident. I'm glad Tim can keep coaching. I don't know how I could keep going if that happened to me.

sometimes evil attracts evil, looks like there is a possibility that he was doing a minor at about the some time he was concieving that all proud son .NCAA Division I Mens Basketball - CBSSports.com

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Originally Posted by ceyeclone

sometimes evil attracts evil, looks like there is a possibility that he was doing a minor at about the some time he was concieving that all proud son .NCAA Division I Mens Basketball - CBSSports.com

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Only allegations at this point...

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Originally Posted by LindenCy

I'm actually writing my dissertation on evil. I believe it exists.

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That's something that is very interesting that I've never really thought about. How are you defining evil?

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Originally Posted by AZMessdawg

Tim is a close personal friend of mine. I had the pleasure of working for him for 3 years in Scottsdale as his assistant. This was an absolute tragedy that I can not even begin to try and understand the feelings Par is going through/went through.

He was very candid in that interview, but you have to know Tim. Thats just the way he is. I think in some way it might have been therapuetic for him, I dont know.

I didnt get to speak with him much after he moved on to Eastern AZ and I got out of the coaching biz, but he truly is one hell of a coach.

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Thanks for your insights. Tim's obviously very strong in his dealing with this tragedy. My prayers are with him...

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Originally Posted by isufbcurt

Wow that is nuts. In no way do I condone what she did, but he was the one who left her (for reasons we don't know) and while the situation is tragic he is hardly free of any fault here.

I know I will prolly get ripped for the above opinion.

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I'm ripping you, he has no responsiblitly for her slowing killing his son and even taking pictures of it...DAMN!!!!

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Originally Posted by Knownothing

She is a person you wish they could have shocker her back to life just so someone could kill her again. She is in Hell.

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A hundred times over and over again!!!

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Originally Posted by Knownothing

WOW. This lady kills his son and herself. Leaves a picture of the kid with Blue Puffy lips that she took while she was killing him. Leaves him a letter saying it's all his fault. Has the kid scribble on it and says it's the son saying thanks and you want to blame Tim for speaking about it. That is all you got is that Tim is messed up for talking about it. Man that is messed up. I would not be able to do as good as Tim is doing right now. I would probably be laying in a gutter with an empty bottle of Jagermeister laying next to me.

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If this happened to my little man I would need to be locked up for a long time...a padded room for a long time.

This article just rips me, I'm so ****** at that crazy ****** lune. I give the guy props for being able to coach again. Saddest story I've heard in a long time.

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Originally Posted by Balls

Terrible.. my son is almost 2 and I can't imagine. I wish I hadn't read that.

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Ditto, my son is 2...I also wish I hadn't read that...

I want to go pick up my son from daycare right now.

Well... The guy is still innocent until proven guilty... but more details have come to light...
Eastern Arizona Courier | The Copper Era

If it was true I was hoping it would have happened after his wife's murder suicide, but it appears as though this incident happened before...