I live in KC and Q39 is my go to. The people who don’t say Q39 usually say KC Joes, which you can’t really go wrong either way. I also like Char Bar in Westport near Kelly’s if your already going there.
Joe's and Q39 are the 2 places that are actually deserving of their reputation.
There's something about a place having the right ambiance for a BBQ joint and Q39 just feels like it's catered to the JoCo and Plaza crowd. I like walking into a place and "feeling" like I'm at an actual BBQ joint. That's part of the appeal of Danny's and the Junction. You walk into those places and don't feel out of place having a beer and making a mess.