Switching careers in your 40s or older

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Has anyone said '**** it I hate my career' that you have had for 20+ years and switched to something completely different? How did you do it and what sort of career did you switch to? I'm really not wanting to go back to school for a new degree at this point in my life but I am getting really burned out with the stress of corporate ****.
 

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Has anyone said '**** it I hate my career' that you have had for 20+ years and switched to something completely different? How did you do it and what sort of career did you switch to? I'm really not wanting to go back to school for a new degree at this point in my life but I am getting really burned out with the stress of corporate ****.
I'm in the same boat as you right now actually. My company has laid off about 40% of my team the last 6 months and my workload has tripled as a result and I hate going into work right now. The one good thing is my boss is not happy with it either so he is has been very hands off and flexible because if anyone quits it will just get worse for us. At this point I would welcome being laid off and getting a year of severance pay to figure out what I want to do next. I could probably find another comparable but taken a pay cut and less benefits so at the moment gutting it out as I want them to have to pay me off to leave.

My goal is to be in a position to retire around 60 or at least partially retire and maybe take a job with less hours and income to ride out the last years of my working years. Not sure I want to do exactly what I do now if I lost my job or quit but need to work for decent pay at least 15 more years to hit that age 60 target so right now I am in wait and see what happens. Have had other times I explored finding a new job and my situation eventually improved. But right now this is probably the most frustrated I have been in 20 years so maybe I am nearing my breaking point soon.
 

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I'm in the same boat as you right now actually. My company has laid off about 40% of my team the last 6 months and my workload has tripled as a result and I hate going into work right now. The one good thing is my boss is not happy with it either so he is has been very hands off and flexible because if anyone quits it will just get worse for us. At this point I would welcome being laid off and getting a year of severance pay to figure out what I want to do next. I could probably find another comparable but taken a pay cut and less benefits so at the moment gutting it out as I want them to have to pay me off to leave.

My goal is to be in a position to retire around 60 or at least partially retire and maybe take a job with less hours and income to ride out the last years of my working years. Not sure I want to do exactly what I do now if I lost my job or quit but need to work for decent pay at least 15 more years to hit that age 60 target so right now I am in wait and see what happens. Have had other times I explored finding a new job and my situation eventually improved. But right now this is probably the most frustrated I have been in 20 years so maybe I am nearing my breaking point soon.

Do you work for Cerner?
 
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To the OP, are you in any kind of management role? I guess, what do you currently do?
 

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I've thought it out too a bit.

It's tough when you have to consider benefits etc. Not to mention basically starting over.
 
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To the OP, are you in any kind of management role? I guess, what do you currently do?
I'm in comms/PR. Have been in large and small agencies and in house. Right now I consult for a tech company but they are just brutally awful and don't know what they're doing and stress level and hours worked is just not worth it anymore to me. Life is too short to hate your job and work long hours for something that makes you miserable.
 

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I'm in comms/PR. Have been in large and small agencies and in house. Right now I consult for a tech company but they are just brutally awful and don't know what they're doing and stress level and hours worked is just not worth it anymore to me. Life is too short to hate your job and work long hours for something that makes you miserable.
Do you like the work itself? If so, see if other companies are hiring for your role.
 
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I've thought about it many times. As luck would have it, my position has evolved periodically and that has allowed me to learn new skills and freshen the experience.
That's been my expirience too. I'm usually pretty patient and optimistic so I will deal with it to see how it plays out. This time it feels different for some reason. I used to worry about getting laid off, now I am at a point I think I would welcome it as it would get me out of a toxic culture and give me a chance to reset my career. I'm sure my employer would love it if I would quit vs having to pay out severance if they laid me off so a part of me wants them to have to pay me off at this point.
 

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I'm in comms/PR. Have been in large and small agencies and in house. Right now I consult for a tech company but they are just brutally awful and don't know what they're doing and stress level and hours worked is just not worth it anymore to me. Life is too short to hate your job and work long hours for something that makes you miserable.

What would you like to do? Try and figure that out and find what skills and experience you have to meet that. The right company will see past your industry and see your accomplishments.
 

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Was forced into a change at one point.

Look at your skills. What skills do you have that transfer to the new industry?

I know it's easy for people to sell themselves short or not realize the impact the have. Analyze your skills and dial in to how you make an organization better.

Career change can absolutely happen
 

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Has anyone said '**** it I hate my career' that you have had for 20+ years and switched to something completely different? How did you do it and what sort of career did you switch to? I'm really not wanting to go back to school for a new degree at this point in my life but I am getting really burned out with the stress of corporate ****.
Hopefully planning on retirement late 50s maybe worst case 62.
I'd like that last 10 years to be something completely different than what I went to school for.
 
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Do you like the work itself? If so, see if other companies are hiring for your role.
I like SOME parts of the work. I am very media relations focused and that's my strong suit (getting companies interviewed by pubs like TechCrunch, Wall Street Journal, NY Times, CNBC, etc.) What I am NOT interested in anymore is managing people and clients. Which is what this role has turned into and I'm just over it. I'm always on the lookout for new gigs/consulting opps but having it be as niche as I really want it to be is few and far between.
 

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Getting laid off 2 years ago was the best thing that ever happened to me..

Severance for 5 months and I found a job in a field I'm passionate about. I was promoted in 4 months, versus 4.5 years at the other job...

I would have quit if I'd known the grass was actually greener
Did you go into Adult films? Asking for a friend.
 

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I like SOME parts of the work. I am very media relations focused and that's my strong suit (getting companies interviewed by pubs like TechCrunch, Wall Street Journal, NY Times, CNBC, etc.) What I am NOT interested in anymore is managing people and clients. Which is what this role has turned into and I'm just over it. I'm always on the lookout for new gigs/consulting opps but having it be as niche as I really want it to be is few and far between.
Having direct reports is the worst. I left that about 12 years ago when I had 15 direct reports and will never go back to that again. It's f*cking awful.

How much flexibility do you have to branch off and start your own house? I've been in the marketing/ad/branding/comms game most of my career and know many colleagues who have left the agency world to start their own thing and it's worked well. Not as much on the PR side, so that could be more challenging.
 

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I like SOME parts of the work. I am very media relations focused and that's my strong suit (getting companies interviewed by pubs like TechCrunch, Wall Street Journal, NY Times, CNBC, etc.) What I am NOT interested in anymore is managing people and clients. Which is what this role has turned into and I'm just over it. I'm always on the lookout for new gigs/consulting opps but having it be as niche as I really want it to be is few and far between.
I was laid off recently from my job. I was in the finance world and decided to try something different, yet related so I got an accounting job. I took a hard look at the skills I had and how I thought it would translate to another job. My advice is to take some time to figure out your skills and what you enjoy, and research other jobs where those apply. Just based on your OP, it sounds like you need a change. You are correct - life is too short to be miserable at work.
 

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Did it early/mid 30s and so glad I did. Actually changed twice in the last 18 months after being somewhere nearly 15 years. Only place I worked FT and very very niche. Wasn't easy (terrifying and filled with "I'll never be able to do this" thoughts) and it's a total 180 from the industry I was in but it's been very worth it. I was hung up for a bit on getting the perfect role at the perfect company that fit my passions but I've adopted more of a what is the best next step I can take? Because things can always change. And doing it once gave me such confidence that I'm probably a better employee. I take more chances and give my ideas more. I ask more questions. Less afraid. Multiple times a day I still wonder wtf I'm doing but I work with good people always willing to help me learn. If things go poorly and I decide to leave, I'll leave. It's honestly very freeing to know that I can move around and have options.
 
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I work for a big company. I completely changed orgs within the same company and I'm totally refreshed (at the moment, at least).

Much smaller team. Totally different job responsibilities. Promotion.

My past experiences in the company kind of inadvertantly set me up perfectly for this new role, but I'm grateful I could get a low risk change and maintain my pay and benefits without moving my family.

I'm still right with most people here though.... I'd love to downshift out of the corporate world in my late 50's.
 
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