He grabbed his head and threw him down by it. You need to review that and call it a flagrant 2 to set a standard of what is allowed and what isn't. If that doesn't get you thrown out of a game then I'm not sure what will. Honestly I think the NCAA or whoever the governing body is for officials needs to come out and say that should have been a flagrant 2 with an ejection to send the message that it's not acceptable and to set that standard.
I agree. I'm much more in favor of, if it's considered to be even close to 50/50, calling it a flagrant 2 when a physical team is involved and it's early in the game. I also like that line of thinking when the play comes in the midst of escalating physicality/behavior. It sends a message and helps promote a certain level of safety. Thankfully it wasn't a precursor for more physical or dangerous play the rest of the game.
One of our girls who plays soccer had a tournament in DM last year. We hate playing in DM as the tournaments typically have some of the lowest quality referees we see. Anyways, we were slated to play a local (DM area) team that was known to be notoriously physical; there had also been issues with their parents in one of the previous games. Luckily we had an African American (as in he was originally from Africa and emigrated) ref who obviously had several years of refereeing experience (both here and abroad). He talked to the teams at length before the game and after a fairly physical early foul by the opposing team, stopped the game and gave the team another stern verbal warning. It completely set the tone for the rest of the game as the opposing team was less physical. This obviously created a much safer environment and served as a reminder that it is "just a game" for these 8th grade girls. He was also very nice and called a great game (which he could be the head ref for all of our games).
This also has a lasting effect over time. We've seen it in football with the helmet to helmet hits. It's not immediate noticeable but over time there has been a vast decrease in unsafe launches/hits. Players learn the rule, adjust, and ultimately the game is much safer from it. I think they missed this call but won't complain about it as the body of work was about as good as it gets from officials these days.