8 year-old assaulted on bus. Advice plz.

RezClone

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I want to keep the initial post as short as possible. Follow up questions are welcome and appreciated. I need help.

Back in April, our 8 year old son walked into the daycare with a clearly visibly broken arm. The other daycare kids rushed in to tell the employees (My wife being one) that a 16 year old kid intentionally broke our son's arm. (Not only did several kids of all ages claim to witness it, the kid even bragged to another one of the teenagers on the bus.)

We got the police involved, and it was investigated over the course of several weeks. We were assured by the officer that although the other family was trying to stall and shift blame, and that when the kid finally spoke with them he was trying to lie and say my son was on top of him wrestling him in a harassing manner and my sons arm was broken accidently on his own by falling back somehow, everything seemed pretty cut and dry, and the kid would likely be expelled, kicked off the bus, and juvenile court would handle it criminally.

Fast forward to yesterday (Aug 12) my lawyer informs me that not only did the CA decline to charge due to lack of evidence, but the school insurance was unsure if they even needed to grant the claim because the statement given to the police by the bus driver was different than what she had initially given to my wife at the scene of the accident and the statement she gave insurance company themselves.

Why don't we check the bus footage? Well because the camera was down. But don't worry, the school fixed it after the incident so that won't be a problem. The kid still gets to ride the bus because that's his right and they can't take that away from him. Oh and he assaulted another kid at school after his 15 day suspension they gave him for hurting our son, and he is going to be prosecuted for that one.
 

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I think you have 2 options:
1. file a suit against the school and/or the kid's family for medical and emotional damages; like an outrageously high number, and hope the school settles

2. revenge is a dish best served cold, so wait until the kid turns 18.


There was never any chance the "justice" system was going to do anything about this - not without getting yourself a really good lawyer. You can buy yourself some justice, but don't expect it to be provided free.
 

RezClone

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Are there witnesses that can prove your son's version of what happened?
Several! Unfortunately the only adult is the bus driver, and she didn't see what happened. The problem is she told THE POLICE my son was at least partially at fault, or more specifically both kids were messing around and my son was hurt by accident as a result.

Keep in mind he assaulted another girl at school less than a month later. He is being charged for that, which really bothers me that my son doesn't get the benefit of the doubt. Not to mention he's literally a 16 year old teenager and my son doesn't even know how to tie his shoes on his own yet and still believe in Santa Claus for goodness sake!
 

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I think you have 2 options:
1. file a suit against the school and/or the kid's family for medical and emotional damages; like an outrageously high number, and hope the school settles

2. revenge is a dish best served cold, so wait until the kid turns 18.


There was never any chance the "justice" system was going to do anything about this - not without getting yourself a really good lawyer. You can buy yourself some justice, but don't expect it to be provided free.
I'd pick #1, and if you our concerned about lawyer costs, contact a firm that would do the case on contingency, probably 30 percent of settlement!
 

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My advice would be to talk to your attorney about next steps and if you do not like their advice to get a second opinion from another attorney. I think they will be able to provide better advice on next legal steps (like lawsuits, restraining orders, etc.) then any of us.
 

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Several! Unfortunately the only adult is the bus driver and she didn't see what happened. The problem is she told THE POLICE my son was at least partially at fault, or more specifically both kids were messing around and my son was hurt by accident as a result.
How does a bus driver get to decide "fault" in this scenario?
 

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Several! Unfortunately the only adult is the bus driver and she didn't see what happened. The problem is she told THE POLICE my son was at least partially at fault, or more specifically both kids were messing around and my son was hurt by accident as a result.

The 8 year old was mixing it up with a 16 year old?

********. Get the driver on a witness stand.
 

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Several! Unfortunately the only adult is the bus driver and she didn't see what happened. The problem is she told THE POLICE my son was at least partially at fault, or more specifically both kids were messing around and my son was hurt by accident as a result.
I am sorry you are in this position. I am furious just reading through these details and its not even my child. no idea what i would do if it was. I would say there are several people that you could go after here. However, I am not an attorney by any means
 

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Several! Unfortunately the only adult is the bus driver, and she didn't see what happened. The problem is she told THE POLICE my son was at least partially at fault, or more specifically both kids were messing around and my son was hurt by accident as a result.

Keep in mind he assaulted another girl at school less than a month later. He is being charged for that, which really bothers me that my son doesn't get the benefit of the doubt. Not to mention he's literally a 16 year old teenager and my son doesn't even know how to tie his shoes on his own yet and still believe in Santa Claus for goodness sake!
Has your son needed any therapy after the assault? Poor kid is probably scared to even ride the bus?