No, I think you can't understand that not everyone thinks California is paradise, and that LA is the center of said paradise.
Some people have different tastes and opinions, and that is ok. Some people dont like Big Cities. Some people dont like crowded beaches. Some people even like beaches with Warm water.
I was told that Campbell was going to take the TCU job last year because the DFW area was so much better than the Ames area. Because no one in their right mind would rather live in a smaller town than a giant Metro like DFW. When I said not everyone wanted to live in giant metros I was told I was crazy, because so many live in them it proves that everyone wants to live in them. Because those that don't live there, it is of course not by choice, they must be being forced to live in the country or in small towns, or in Iowa, or Montana, rather than LA, or DFW, or NY. Because everything is so much better in those big cities.
But then one has to wonder if it is so much better in LA, why do people live in DFW, why do they live in San Fran, or NY. They must be forced to It cant be by choice. The guy with a backyard looking out to the Montana skyline, must be forced to live there because no way he wouldn't rather live in LA., there is just so much more to do there, all the farmers in Iowa that have been for generations are only living in Iowa because the are forced to, because there is no way they could like it, and no way they could not want to move to a big city instead.
You guys all are acting like anyone that doesnt think Cali is the greatest place on earth, is crazy. And that is just ridiculous. You are also acting like all 12.5 million people spend time on the beach every weekend during football season when the average Temp in LA is in the Mid 70s and the water temp is in the low 60s.
You are right I guess I don't get it. Maybe you don't either.