By reinvesting the monies received into a rollover, then transferring the said monies into a Roth, i can avoid the 20% tax kill on the lump-sum and only pay the 10% penalty plus tax on taking out what i need. Its the paperwork that is a pain, for right now the QDRO is stuck in TIAA-Cref land for 3 weeks. But by figuring this out, i just saved myself $9200. Homework, people. Do it.