Suggestions for Falling/Staying Asleep!!

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I put on a podcast, usually from CF or IE. I set an alarm on the podcast for 30 minutes and my wife routinely tells me I am out in less then 5. I find the podcasts can take my mind off of whatever is keeping my mind overly occupied.
 
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My wife has struggled with this for years. We have tried everything under the sun.
  • CBD - Seemed to work for a while, but then the effect wore off.
  • THC - Was tried once when things were very rough and she hated how it made her feel.
  • Melatonin - As previously mentioned, the hangover affect is real, but it does help when necessary.
  • Benadryl - My sister works in healthcare and nurses swear by taking 2 before bed to help with sleep. Did not help my wife.
  • Iron supplement - This seems to help her at times.
  • Magnesium - Has seemed to have the biggest impact in helping. She will take a vitamin supplement and she also will use lotions with Magnesium and Melatonin.
I do not have a lot of struggle with sleep myself, but I do know that alcohol is horrible for my sleep quality. If I have more than 2-3 drinks, I will fall asleep easily but wake up in the middle of the night wide awake.

Sleep in a dark, cool room and no screens.

Probably the worst part of not sleeping well is the snowball anxiety that forms from worrying about being able to sleep the next night, and so on.
 
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Staying asleep is a different story. I still wake up on occasion with feelings of dread and depression. It's weird and I can't explain why it happens, but I'm pretty sure stress is a trigger. It usually takes me a half hour or so to get over those feelings and then I'm fine, but it's awful when it happens and I usually don't get much sleep afterwards.

I have the same issue as you but it is not regular and very random. I have zero issues falling asleep (my wife jokes that I am asleep in less than 2 mins) but very erratic in staying asleep. Sometimes I'll sleep consistently to 6am, sometimes I'll wake up at 3am, sometimes its 5:30 - and its often difficult to fall back asleep, although it usually eventually happens. But every now and then, I'll wake up with mind racing thoughts like "I have cancer", "I'm going to get fired", "something bad is going to happen to my family today". It's very odd and I cannot pinpoint any rational like alcohol, stressors, etc.

Getting a Fitbit for Christmas has helped make me more aware of my sleep. There are days I'll have a 90 sleep score and the next day it will be 70. Even though the two days were nearly identical.

Didn't realize so many people had sleep issues and thought it was just me so thanks for this thread (and sorry to everyone because sleep issues SUCK).
 
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Might consider a sleep study. I did one last year at DSM Sleep Specialists in Clive because I was concerned about sleep apnea. Turns out you have to stop breathing for 5 seconds per hour to qualify for a c-pap and I only stop breathing for 3.5 seconds per hour.

I've been borderline too. I purchased this a couple of years ago and it was a game changer for me (and my wife). No snoring at all and really opens up your airways.

 
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I've been borderline too. I purchased this a couple of years ago and it was a game changer for me (and my wife). No snoring at all and really opens up your airways.

Amazon product

That link isn't loading. The nurse who monitored me laughed when she woke me up and said "Well we got some good data, and I don't know how else to say this but you snore heroically"
 
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I struggle endlessly with this as well, almost every night. It may be one of the most frustrating things I've ever dealt with. I've also dealt with the "witching hour" from time to time but the restless legs is the worst.
For sure.

I hate it when they start "jiggling" on their own while I'm watching TV or not even in bed yet late in the evening. Signs for a long night. Sigh.
 

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CPAPs make a world of difference too. I was a horrid snorer (I sleep downstairs and it keeps my wife awake upstairs). I didn't think it'd really do much for me, but I got one 2 years ago and can't go a single night without it. It has a water chamber and humidifier in it and I use the nose pillow strap so it doesn't cover my mouth (the air pressure keeps the mouth closed). If I try to sleep without it (quick overnight stay somewhere), I wake up in the morning with my throat hurting like crazy and all day long. I also used to get bad sinus infections and bronchitis every other month like clockwork and have only had 1 since I got it.
 

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I've been borderline too. I purchased this a couple of years ago and it was a game changer for me (and my wife). No snoring at all and really opens up your airways.

Amazon product

Tried C-PAP (C-Crap more appropriately) and finally went to a dental device. I tried full face mask, nose only mask, and soft pillow for nose. :pWorld of difference as it won't shift every time I move. Only problem I had was dreaming I had a mouthful of bubble gum stuffed in my mouth, but that stopped.
 

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This is my issue too. If I don't watch any TV after 6pm, sleep isn't that bad. Minimize computer and phone use after that time. Early dinner. Take a shower before going to bed. All this worked much better than any herbs and medications.

What the heck do you do after 6 pm if it doesn't involve TV or a phone?? I could see that for a couple days a week, but some nights that's about all we do after dinner. I have read for like a half hour before bed in the past, but no way I could do that for 3 hours. Feel like I'd be more stressed just trying to find things to pass the time.
 

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What the heck do you do after 6 pm if it doesn't involve TV or a phone?? I could see that for a couple days a week, but some nights that's about all we do after dinner. I have read for like a half hour before bed in the past, but no way I could do that for 3 hours. Feel like I'd be more stressed just trying to find things to pass the time.

Oh we usually watch TV after 6 pm:D. I don't necessarily practice what I preach. Especially with all the sports after 6. But the 2-3 nights a week when I don't watch TV after 6, sleep is so much better.
 
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That link isn't loading. The nurse who monitored me laughed when she woke me up and said "Well we got some good data, and I don't know how else to say this but you snore heroically"

Weird, CF doesn't like Amazon links I guess. Here it is:

 

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Weird, CF doesn't like Amazon links I guess. Here it is:

My doctor at the sleep study suggested something similar, she specifically mentioned asking my dentist to get 1 custom fit. I'll probably go that route whenever I have my next appointment.
 
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I've been fighting this for a couple of years now. I struggle to fall asleep, and when I finally do it's not uncommon that I wake up wide-awake at 3:00am and struggle once again to fall asleep. I've tried Melatonin pills but they leave me hungover so bad the next day that its worse than not sleeping. I'll have a glass of bourbon, which will help to fall asleep but then wake up at 3:00 still. While taking a toke of Indica works fantastic to remedy everything I can't use it for professional reasons.

Anybody else deal with this? What are your remedies?
This my secret weapon.


Try sleepy tea to help keep you asleep. There's all kinds of different colors of noise to choose from, red, green, pink, grey, etc. find one that suits you.

As far as using alcohol, supposedly you never reach REM even with just a little in your system.
 

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I'm about 60, so prostate might be some of my sleep issue.

What I have found works the best for a good night sleep is limiting my food and drink intake 3-4 hours before going to bed. Have also found reducing sugar intake throughout the day helps.
 

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I have to take 40mg Melatonin, 200mg Quetiapine, 20mg Baclofen, and CBD/CBN.
I take 200mg quetiapine 1.5 hrs before laying down. 50mg of Nuleaf Naturals CBD oil .5 hrs before sleep. I tried alot of cheaper brand CBD and don't waste your money. Nuleaf Naturals is located in Colorado and always ranks among the best.
 

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I struggle endlessly with this as well, almost every night. It may be one of the most frustrating things I've ever dealt with. I've also dealt with the "witching hour" from time to time but the restless legs is the worst.
My symptoms for this have almost completely subsided since I went on CPAP machine. Probably a coincidence. I have never seen any evidence of a medical connection. But also haven't looked for one.