You seem to be responding to the wrong person. I never called her whiny and even said it was off base. I said she gave me Carl vibes.“Maybe” calling her whiny “might” be off? It’s completely off base. She’s not whiny at all. Either you are just hearing what you want to hear, or you are searching for a reason to complain (whine) yourself.
As far as not listening. I know right? Joel told her she couldn’t have a gun. She didn’t listen, and 10 minutes there she was, saving his ass because she didn’t listen.