Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Sex?

[cyhiphopp]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

Here's one I've run into since I've been back in the dating pool.

Girls pretty much always say they are just looking for a "nice guy". Most of the time they will be more attracted to the cocky guy than the nice quiet one, even if they're both attractive.
I know it's about confidence, but even when you're confident you can still lose out to someone with "game".
You would think girls would figure this out eventually, but they usually date a doosh and think they can change him.

 

[Bret44]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

But, don't those technically grind gears?

 

[cyhiphopp]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

Sending me 5654106 snapchat selfies/day

Tell her to send em to me. I'll take em.

 

[ISUCubswin]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

2015, you seem to have a lot of lady troubles.

What troubles me is the picture I saw of you with your arm around some cute blonde. She was a dime.

 

[ISUCyclones2015]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

2015, you seem to have a lot of lady troubles.

What troubles me is the picture I saw of you with your arm around some cute blonde. She was a dime.

I strike out a lot but sometimes I get a freaking home run.

 

[Bret44]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

I strike out a lot but sometimes I get a freaking home run.

Even Cecil Fielder had better luck.

 

[cyhiphopp]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

I strike out a lot but sometimes I get a freaking home run.

I think my problem is I don't take enough swings. I need some more ABs

 

[ISUCyclones2015]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

I think my problem is I don't take enough swings. I need some more ABs

Honestly, I've been taking a lot more swings the last couple years. Definitely helps brush off the "no"s a lot easier man.

 

[cyhiphopp]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

Honestly, I've been taking a lot more swings the last couple years. Definitely helps brush off the "no"s a lot easier man.

Yeah I'm trying. Doing online dating now since I don't have a lot of other opportunities to meet new girls.

Apparently I am only attractive to girls I am only marginally attracted to. Fat girls think I'm hot. I'm not skinny or anything but I'd rather date a girl who's not fatter than I am.

 

[CYCLNST8]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

Not ordering fries then eating mine. Learned to just get an additional order no matter what. Pisses her off, but gives me a feeling of indignant satisfaction. And she eats the fries. This is universal with all women.

There IS a right way to stack a dishwasher.

Spending too much time on the cell phone around family & friends or during a movie.

 

[ISUCyclones2015]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

Yeah I'm trying. Doing online dating now since I don't have a lot of other opportunities to meet new girls.

Apparently I am only attractive to girls I am only marginally attracted to. Fat girls think I'm hot. I'm not skinny or anything but I'd rather date a girl who's not fatter than I am.

I do Tinder but that's a young people's thing. But I am not a skinny guy either and get a lot of fat girls on Tinder too. But I have more success at a bar or out because they can get to know me a hell of a lot more. Online Dating is a lot of looking at the picture, deciding if they're attractive enough or not, then looking at the profile info.

 

[cyhiphopp]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

Not ordering fries then eating mine. Learned to just get an additional order no matter what. Pisses her off, but gives me a feeling of indignant satisfaction. And she eats the fries. This is universal with all women.

There IS a right way to stack a dishwasher.

Spending too much time on the cell phone around family & friends or during a movie.

Cell phones!!! Holy crap! I love my smart phone but if we're on a date, put the damn phone away. Same thing with taking selfies all the time.

 

[cyhiphopp]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

I do Tinder but that's a young people's thing. But I am not a skinny guy either and get a lot of fat girls on Tinder too. But I have more success at a bar or out because they can get to know me a hell of a lot more. Online Dating is a lot of looking at the picture, deciding if they're attractive enough or not, then looking at the profile info.

Oh I know. I'm not expecting a super hot skinny girl to be all over me. I'm not really that picky either, but if you look pregnant when you're not pregnant, that's not gonna work for me.

 

[coolerifyoudid]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

My wife and I were raised very differently. My parents never argued in front of us and her parents were at each other's throats every mealtime. As a result, I'm really mellow and tend to avoid unneccessary confrontations. She sees them as normal.

If the wife and I argue, I stay really even keel, which apparently pisses her off. She will relentlessly argue a lost cause only so she can push me to the point of raising my voice.

 

[Doc]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

I do Tinder but that's a young people's thing. But I am not a skinny guy either and get a lot of fat girls on Tinder too. But I have more success at a bar or out because they can get to know me a hell of a lot more. Online Dating is a lot of looking at the picture, deciding if they're attractive enough or not, then looking at the profile info.

Oh, Tinder's not just for young people. I'm 30 and go on like two tinder dates as week which is about I can handle at my old aged energy level. Hiphopp, you should get it.

 

[EnhancedFujita]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

Complains about things being messy from time to time yet she constantly puts away dishes that didn't get fully cleaned by the dishwasher. Nothing grosser than grabbing a bowl for cereal that still has crusted oatmeal on it. Also the fact that I can't offer any criticism without it coming back around to something about me.

 

[ISUCyclones2015]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

Oh, Tinder's not just for young people. I'm 30 and go on like two tinder dates as week which is about I can handle at my old aged energy level. Hiphopp, you should get it.

I click yes on every woman over 30 just to see what happens

 

[cyhiphopp]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

Oh, Tinder's not just for young people. I'm 30 and go on like two tinder dates as week which is about I can handle at my old aged energy level. Hiphopp, you should get it.

****! 30 is old age now?

 

[CYCLNST8]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

****! 30 is old age now?

Yeah, F that. I'm still a kid, ha ha!

 

[Doc]

Re: Friday QOTW 4/18 - What really grinds your gears about your SO or the Opposite Se

****! 30 is old age now?

Hey I was just giving context to a college student!