My wife and I paid for tux rental and brides maid dresses. Just a personal decision, but we figured why should they have to drop the cash when we asked them to be in the wedding.
Same. I already had a butt ugly closet of bridesmaids dresses I had paid for but never worn again, except the one from my sister's wedding. That was a great dress I wore all through college and sister paid for it.
I'm too lazy to make cooked salsa, although I probably should, as garden has way too many tomatoes and jalapenos still. Have made probably a couple dozen batches of fresh salsa this year, and I triple the recipe each time. Son took a batch to airbnb for the wedding, and they ate it all after the rehearsal dinner while playing poker and drinking beer. I raised an eyebrow at this and he said the rehearsal dinner food was fairly awful. And they killed the scotcheroos I sent for breakfast, just in case the wedding food was bad too.