Not everyone processes things the same. Just because he isn't responding "normally" or whatever that means, does not mean a damn thing.
I realize that. It was just my read. Apologies for the poor wording.
Not everyone processes things the same. Just because he isn't responding "normally" or whatever that means, does not mean a damn thing.
Shock has surprising effects on people. Probably just as common to see somebody show very little emotion as it is to see someone inconsolable in a situation like this. There is no normal.FWIW, after watching the boyfriend do an interview, I did not think he appeared as concerned/sad/etc. as somebody in that situation probably should be.
Not sure if this has been brought up, but where was the dig she was watching and was there a sign of a struggle in the house?
People often think that someone should act a certain way after a tragic occurrence, but everyone reacts and processes differently. Id be really hesitant to use just that as evidence. Of course investigate him like anyone else close to the situation, but i think people jump to that conclusion too much.
Not sure if this has been brought up, but where was the dig she was watching and was there a sign of a struggle in the house?
Her father lives in Oakland, and she os oroginally from there. Might have something to do with it? Most abductions are from family members.
Her glasses and contacts were left behind and she cant see without them, so who knows.
Not many family members abduction college age kids though.
I went to a seminar put on by our town police department regarding the rise in human trafficking in small town Iowa. The numbers they presented are depressingly unreal. This is a very deep and dark crime and it is very much alive in Iowa. What dropped my jaw the most is, the largest customers of the traffickers are middle aged, married with children, middle to upper class males, are the ones fueling it.
FWIW, after watching the boyfriend do an interview, I did not think he appeared as concerned/sad/etc. as somebody in that situation probably should be.
Agree. And had he kept to himself (no interviews), folks would say "and why haven't we heard from.the boyfriend?"I'd be really hesitant to make judgments based on superficial stuff like this. Isn't he about her age? He probably hasn't slept in days, been interrogated by the police, almost certainly hasn't been schooled in giving media interviews...not everybody presents as the concerned relative/friend/boyfriend straight out of Central Casting.
I'm not arguing he didn't/couldn't have done it. Just that "he looks guilty" has probably ruined a lot of people's lives, whether by being under police suspicion if not being wrongly arrested and convicted.
Beyond both being brunettes not really. Man this thread is wierd.Completely OT, but has anyone else noticed she bears a resemblance to Jodi Arias?
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Beyond both being brunettes not really. Man this thread is wierd.
I think when your girlfriend, who always returns texts and snap chats immediately doesn't do that or show up for work, it's pretty safe to say something could be wrong and report it. And of course they wouldn't rule out foul play. They didn't know anything and foul play is almost always the case.Death, Kidnapped, Sex Trafficking, or, best case scenario, dissociative identity disorder.
I've had a two separate woman friends in the Harlan/Avoca area who've been pulled over just off the interstate (both for speeding) but while the officer was getting their information, the officer asked both of them if they were victims of sex trafficking because there has been a high volume of incidents in the area.
Couple things that stick out as odd to me
- She wasn't missing for that long before she was reported missing
- They announced foul play isn't being ruled out almost the same time they told the public she was missing
I think when your girlfriend, who always returns texts and snap chats immediately doesn't do that or show up for work, it's pretty safe to say something could be wrong and report it. And of course they wouldn't rule out foul play. They didn't know anything and foul play is almost always the case.
Oh, I'm not saying boyfriend or even family. I'm saying something stuck out to someone suspicious pretty early.
I love my parents and girlfriend dearly and that those feelings are reciprocated. However, if I went 24 hours without saying anything to them without warning, I don't think they would report it unless there was another sign of something suspicious.
This place would suck if we only posted facts.The amount of speculation getting thrown around in here is weird.