My 2 cents...
Kyle and his wife have 2 kids who are in college, don't know if they have others, but the husband gets an opportunity, in a competitive business, to go from $120K to probably $275K+ and potentially gain a lot of attention in a rebuild in a P5 conference for his resume. The kids are in college and could care less what you are doing. The wife has her own business and probably just as busy as the husband in his job. The wife can just as easy schedule her appointments to leave Wednesdays open and drive to Ames on Tuesday night and back Thursday morning. Out of season the husband can probably spend at least 50% of his time in CF. In the meantime the wife gets to watch kids play in person at UNI and dad has to watch a recording that his friends at UNI will post on-line for him.
After 20 years how much time you spend together is not always the most important thing.
Problem solved, let's move on from this subject, I am sure the Green's will figure it out during one of the family vacations they can now afford down on Sanibel!