Is Fibromayalga Real?

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carvers4math

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I mean, neither can a lot of smokers, middle aged men with heart disease or pre diabetes. Doesn't make their illnesses less real.
Obesity is an epidemic with the young as well. A local 32 year old died of a heart attack and his parents felt guilty they couldn’t get him to take his doctor’s advice seriously
 
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Not exactly sure.
That does sound extreme and likely at least partially muchensans by proxy or whatever but just based on say....260 work days...if I had taken a sick day every day our kids were home in 2022, my count as of today with a puker last night is 48. That's 18% of the year with 3 weeks left. I'm sure we'll hit 50.
Holy cow. My 3 kids combined never came close to half that!!
 

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I think it is real but people will always question something there isn’t a definitive proof for. What’s odd is you hear people question this but not migraines, anxiety, depression, etc.

I have severe anxiety, depression, and OCD on levels where 12 months ago I was 3 hours away from committing suicide - had arranged password and instructions on everything for my wife. And that’s not the only time. I can’t function in any way without a combination of 4 medicines - of which I’ve gone through over 35 different ones since my initial diagnosis roughly 28 years ago. But my diagnosis on each of those was based on what I say and what a doctor deemed correct (I can tell you very much it’s real, it’s bad, and it’s chronic), not a blood or DNA test. Does that mean people just make it up?
 

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Because it's fascinating. I don't really know what fibromyalgia is, but people faking pain/illness for attention is absolutely a real phenomenon that 100% occurs.

I used to work with a woman who absolutely faked illnesses in her children. The number and frequency of her kids' ailments was staggering, and shockingly topical. If there was a new illness going around, they always got it first. If someone brought up an allergy, they had it too. Her kids had multiple seizures, anaphylaxis, Lyme disease, SARS, pneumonia, etc, all in the course of 12 months, with multiple occurrences of several of them. She missed almost 25% of work days for an entire calendar year, due to sickness in her kids.
There was no fathomable way that her kids were that sick all of the time.

And that's fascinating that some people will do that, and will continue to do it, even after all believability has been exhausted.

I'm not passing judgement, but it's definitely something that is interesting as hell, and worthy of study.

It's fascinating. But the original poster just seems to have an agenda and is saying that he believes everyone is faking an illness that he doesn't think is real.
 

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I think it is real but people will always question something there isn’t a definitive proof for. What’s odd is you hear people question this but not migraines, anxiety, depression, etc.

I have severe anxiety, depression, and OCD on levels where 12 months ago I was 3 hours away from committing suicide - had arranged password and instructions on everything for my wife. And that’s not the only time. I can’t function in any way without a combination of 4 medicines - of which I’ve gone through over 35 different ones since my initial diagnosis roughly 28 years ago. But my diagnosis on each of those was based on what I say and what a doctor deemed correct (I can tell you very much it’s real, it’s bad, and it’s chronic), not a blood or DNA test. Does that mean people just make it up?
In the case of Fibro its possible they aren't making it up but they aren't in any more pain than anyone else. My body hurts all the time.
 

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In the case of Fibro its possible they aren't making it up but they aren't in any more pain than anyone else. My body hurts all the time.
That could always be the case as well. I had a Dr once suggest I have it but never followed up or asked questions because part of it may just be residual inflammation from my RA, and I didn’t want any more meds.
 
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I think it is real but people will always question something there isn’t a definitive proof for. What’s odd is you hear people question this but not migraines, anxiety, depression, etc.
I have a coworker that misses a couple days at a time every other week for migraines. She's on FMLA and it's quite obvious she's just milking the system. Regularly posts on Facebook on days that she takes off. One day had posted about going out to lunch with her mom on a day she had called in. Someone must have tipped her off cause it was deleted shortly after. My personal favorite was a couple weeks ago posting a pic at a UNI game when she had called in that day, and then called in the next day too
 

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I think it is real but people will always question something there isn’t a definitive proof for. What’s odd is you hear people question this but not migraines, anxiety, depression, etc.

I have severe anxiety, depression, and OCD on levels where 12 months ago I was 3 hours away from committing suicide - had arranged password and instructions on everything for my wife. And that’s not the only time. I can’t function in any way without a combination of 4 medicines - of which I’ve gone through over 35 different ones since my initial diagnosis roughly 28 years ago. But my diagnosis on each of those was based on what I say and what a doctor deemed correct (I can tell you very much it’s real, it’s bad, and it’s chronic), not a blood or DNA test. Does that mean people just make it up?
I don’t know you at all, but CF is a better place for you being here. I hope you stick around.
 
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