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isuska

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do it! You don't notice right out of college. We did it because we had a wedding, DH was still in college (two rents!) and one income...when DH started working, we still lived like it was just my salary. Didn't get a nicer apartment or new car (though we did get me a newer car - after the wedding), lots of furniture - you see a lot of new grads go a bit crazy on 'buying adult stuff'. I saw single coworkers new out of college getting nicer apartments on their sole income that DH and I were avoiding on two incomes.

That doesn't mean you don't occasionally go have a nicer dinner or nice vacation and just dump everything into a retirement account. You still want to enjoy some benefits of working..........just don't go crazy :) I was looking at our spending recently - assuming that it had gone up as our income has gone up and we've done things like buy clothes from nicer places/not use Olive Garden as date night - and our monthly spending was actually the same as it's been the past three years. Technically lower because my student loans got paid off. It's gone higher now the past six months because of house stuff (and will stay now with the mortgage being higher than rent), but I was really proud of that fact!
This is pretty much what we did also. All our friends think we are poor but we paid off both student loans within 5 years, bought and paid off a car in 3 years before it was totaled (thanks for running a redlight, Bill in WDSM, you *******).

It really hasn't been that hard.
 

cowgirl836

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Couple of our kids could learn from you. They each have a habit of living far beyond their means. Unfortunately, they have been enabled far too well by their in-laws, to the point where we look like the "bad" parents because we don't pay their debts. We've helped each of them at least once or twice along the way when they were desperate, but when a son has a blu-ray hooked up to a large screen, and is driving an SUV that is 8 years younger than your rusty little Lumina, I'm not particularly interested in "helping him out", you know?


woof. Neither of us grew up particularly well-off so I know for me at least, there was never the thought that "oh yeah, my parents will just give me money!" I mean, desperate times, yes but I don't know that I could have asked. Growing up on a farm that was on a thin line for most of my childhood, graduating into the recession, and seeing your fiance's nine month well-paid internship turn into 7.5 months of unpaid labor (plus housing to pay for!) tends to put the fear of God into you about finances.
 

cyrocksmypants

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Hah...that's funny, reminds me...one day she was wearing her grey yoga pants, standing at the sink doing dishes...I pulled out my phone and snapped a pic. She heard the phony shutter noise and asked "did you just take a pic of my butt?", to which I responded "yuuup", and she said "You better not post that anywhere", and I assured her it was only for my enjoyment.

Will she be wearing them if I come and visit?
 

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West End is only 2 miles from my house but I kinda think of it as more of a wintr place. It is a younger crowd than the old ****s that hang out at Redstone but maybe Chaser should head over to Uptown where the 20-somethings really roam free. He could check out the rooftop deck scene. That's where I'd go if I wasn't such an ancient mariner. Or maybe Maynard's on Lake Minnetonka. Summer on the lakeside deck is always a winner and Thursday night in Excelsior is Lady's Night.

Jeez, I am regular tour guide guy!
All very good suggestions. You are a great tour guide guy.

You may be right about West End being a bit more of a Winter place. However, the competition seems very limited. If there is a man there it is because he is there with a gal (women be shopping).
 

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So the talk about high school and the talk two weeks ago about how skinny I was once upon a time, and it being Throwback Thursday....

Me...on the left obviously...just turned 14. I was...a RAIL. IMG_0494.jpg
 

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So the talk about high school and the talk two weeks ago about how skinny I was once upon a time, and it being Throwback Thursday....

Me...on the left obviously...just turned 14. I was...a RAIL.
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I can't stop looking at your feet! You were definitely a skinny Minnie!
 

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So the talk about high school and the talk two weeks ago about how skinny I was once upon a time, and it being Throwback Thursday....

Me...on the left obviously...just turned 14. I was...a RAIL.
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I recognize you from a Sally Struthers commercial
 

carvers4math

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Sara, I always pictured you as a tall version of Eowyn.:twitcy: Ironically, I was flipping through stations on Sunday and stopped on it right as your avi line was coming on.
 

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I can't stop looking at your feet! You were definitely a skinny Minnie!

My feet look like skis on the end of my ankles. My feet are pretty much the same size...I just have more "meat" on my calves now.
 

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My feet look like skis on the end of my ankles. My feet are pretty much the same size...I just have more "meat" on my calves now.

One of my sons was a weed with water skis attached to his ankles...he (mostly) grew into his feet, but IMO the phrase "tripping over your own feet" was coined by someone watching him walk. I swear he could trip over the patter in the kitchen linoleum.
 

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After taking a break last week my friend and I had another golf outing. Through the first 3 holes I was 6 shots better than my last time but then went to **** on the last 6 to finish 5 shots worse than last time. My chipping has improved big time, my tee offs are ok, but my putting SUCKS! Not sure how those pros make a 15 ft putt look like the easiest thing in the world.
 

isulive2train

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woof. Neither of us grew up particularly well-off so I know for me at least, there was never the thought that "oh yeah, my parents will just give me money!" I mean, desperate times, yes but I don't know that I could have asked. Growing up on a farm that was on a thin line for most of my childhood, graduating into the recession, and seeing your fiance's nine month well-paid internship turn into 7.5 months of unpaid labor (plus housing to pay for!) tends to put the fear of God into you about finances.

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00clone

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My feet look like skis on the end of my ankles. My feet are pretty much the same size...I just have more "meat" on my calves now.

In honor of that wording, a little blues for all to enjoy:

[video=youtube;Zdwc-JGteEg]https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=15&v=Zdwc-JGteEg[/video]
 
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