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Did anybody sleep in the room after birth with mom and baby? Went home figuring it was the best for everyone's sleep. After the first, it was to watch kid 1 and then 2.

When Alana was born, I was taking pictures in the room - like, hundreds of them. Finally the vixen got pissed off and told me to go home. :(
 

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Did anybody sleep in the room after birth with mom and baby? Went home figuring it was the best for everyone's sleep. After the first, it was to watch kid 1 and then 2.

Stayed the first night with both (actually two nights in a row with our daughter due to the issues but went home at 6 to shower change etc). Second night I went home to make sure everything was ready since both were expected but not that day. Also did the whole gave the dog and cat something of the baby to smell.
 

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When Alana was born, I was taking pictures in the room - like, hundreds of them. Finally the vixen got pissed off and told me to go home. :(
I stayed the whole time with both of my younger ones. I was joking earlier about the chair and whatnot, but I can honestly say a couple of the nights I slept in that room on the chair that converts into sort of a chaise lounge were some of my most miserable. For one kid, it was below zero outside each night and the chair was right next to a single pane window so I could feel a below zero wind through the cracks around the window and all I had was a single adult sized baby blanket. And it was a moderately uncomfortable hard as a rock institutional upholstered chair but as a bed it felt like sleeping on a crowned board so if you weren't kept awake by the wind, cold and hard surface you were awakened again by the sensation of rolling off the damned thing.

I stayed because we wanted our kids in our room with us rather than in the nursery. When the last was born my in-laws stayed at the house with the other one so I could be there the whole time. Since both were C-sections Mom fed and I did everything else because a C-section makes Mom - you know - a surgery patient.

Despite my complaining, if had to do it again I wouldn't change a thing.
 

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My Mom's due date with me was June 25. She had several false alarms.....finally early on the morning of July 17 (!!!!!!) she tells my Dad maybe - maybe - they should go to the hospital. (Later on she said that she had considered not even saying anything, that it was yet another false alarm.) Anyway, LSS, she was in the delivery room for 45 minutes. My Dad had barely enough time to park the car, sign the papers, and light a cigarette, and he was a daddy again.

In retrospect, I think her ob/gyn missed her due date by a significant amount.
We were at 41 weeks with our first and nothing - and I mean nothing - was happening. Our OB/GYN scheduled the C-Section at that point because she said, "Nothing good happens after 41 weeks." When she was open for the C-section it was apparent that some things were a little off in there so we expected that we would have to have C-sections in the future. In addition the doctor held up the umbilical that had been wrapped around the baby's neck and showed us that it had a loose knot in it as well. Both would have been bad news in a Vag delivery. When we got close to the due date for the youngest we just went ahead and scheduled it.
 

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That's because you ladies get to have drugs administered to you in a nice comfy bed while we have to sit in torture chairs or stand until we get back spasms and remind you girls to breathe because you don't have the courtesy to remember to breathe all by yourself.
Nice try. Both of mine were drug-free except for a pudenda block before the episiotomy on #1. Didn't even have an episiotomy with #2 as he arrived faster than they expected and he was delivered by a nurse. Doc arrived in his pajamas about a minute later.

Sometimes you just can't wait, ya know? (Carvers will understand that one)
 

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So Hawkeye fans give birth in the bathroom?

EDIT for further questions:

Must the Hawkmother give birth in the same bathroom where the act of conception occurred?
Not exactly the same, but is this analogous to salmon that must return to their birth waters to spawn?
I hope not as at least one of those Hawkwhoopybathrooms no longer exists.
 

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I think the RTT Ladies have mentioned this before, but each labor is so different compared to each person. There are the obvious things that are generalized, but the experience is different to everyone. With Z I learned that some of her kicks were actually contractions, but both times I never really felt anything until they broke the water. I think I had a slightly bad reaction to the epidural. I think my blood pressure went pretty low and they had to adjust things. I just remember from around that point had mainly had to concentrate on singing carols to myself to not freak out until I could push.
I LOVE IT!!!
I thought I was the only one who did that to distract myself from pain/discomfort. I still do it every time I get my teeth cleaned. :D
 

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Did anybody sleep in the room after birth with mom and baby? Went home figuring it was the best for everyone's sleep. After the first, it was to watch kid 1 and then 2.
I slept in the room for the whole time with kid 1, one night with kid 2 and no nights with kid 3.
 

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When Alana was born, I was taking pictures in the room - like, hundreds of them. Finally the vixen got pissed off and told me to go home. :(
My daughter had prom last weekend (she just went with a group of friends). When I went to prom, I'm pretty sure we took 3 pictures. One at my house, one at the girl's house and one at the dance. The group went to a scenic location and my wife took 162 pictures of my daughter going to prom.
 
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Nice try. Both of mine were drug-free except for a pudenda block before the episiotomy on #1. Didn't even have an episiotomy with #2 as he arrived faster than they expected and he was delivered by a nurse. Doc arrived in his pajamas about a minute later.

Sometimes you just can't wait, ya know? (Carvers will understand that one)
Is this a Pudenda block?
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I've never tried it but I suppose it would help you to push a bit faster.
 
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