Man... some of you need to curb your emotions and get a freaking grip. Good lord you sound like a bunch of women scorned.
Freaking embarassing.
The guy made the decision that was best for him as he sees it. Let it go. Man, if I'm a potential recruit... and I see the meltdown that is occurring and the way we treat our team members there is no way in hell I'm coming to Ames. Maybe Harrison Barnes made the right decision afterall.
This tells me you have never played team sports, where you depend on your teammates and they depend on you. Quitting on them in the middle of the season is unforgiveable. Incredibly selfish.