I've had a few that weren't great.
In college my roommate and I met these two girls right at the beginning of the semester. We invited them to a party. Later my roommate told me he had dibs on the little one, which was ok with me because the other girl was stacked and incredibly hot.
We went to the party and had a lot of fun. Got a bit drunk and ended up making out later. Things were going well so far so I asked her out on a real date.
We went out to eat and were sitting there talking, getting to know each other. The girl had the personality of a rock. I know I'm not the coolest guy out there but I had similar interest to most college guys. Music, sports, movies... Every thing I talked to her about just ended up with her having a glazed look in her eyes. She finally perked up when we talked about her being in equestrian club and we watched some of the Olympics which were on at the bar and grill we were at. I've never had that little to talk about with someone.
We ended up hanging out a few more times and making out, but we eventually parted ways. Damn she was hot, but it definitely wasn't meant to be.
More recent story:
After my divorce and a couple failed hook ups by my friends I tried internet dating. It is definitely hit or miss but I went on a few dates just to figure it out.
One of my first dates was a single mom from the East side of DSM. We met at a mexican restaurant for dinner and a few margaritas. We meet outside and she is just deathly pale and incredibly nervous. I do my best to make her feel comfortable and try to get to know her. A few minutes into the date she looks me in the eyes and says that she has something she HAS to tell me. Apparently she used to be a meth addict. She's been sober for 7 years but she thought she should tell me.
Okay, that's a bit more extreme than I was expecting, but we'll see what happens. Then she goes on to tell me about all her baby daddy drama. How she had to get the court to make him pay child support. How he often misses his time with her son and how his new girlfriend and also baby mamma is a big dramatic issue.
I take it all in stride and we have a nice dinner. Afterwards she asks if I want to go to a bar with her. Okay, that sounds nice and casual. Then when we get there she texts some of her friends and has them come hang out with us. A little odd but sure. We end up having an okay time playing pool and drinking, but the whole thing is just weird.
I ended up not going out with her again. A little too much drama and weirdness for me. She was definitely not hot enough to put up with all of that.
In college my roommate and I met these two girls right at the beginning of the semester. We invited them to a party. Later my roommate told me he had dibs on the little one, which was ok with me because the other girl was stacked and incredibly hot.
We went to the party and had a lot of fun. Got a bit drunk and ended up making out later. Things were going well so far so I asked her out on a real date.
We went out to eat and were sitting there talking, getting to know each other. The girl had the personality of a rock. I know I'm not the coolest guy out there but I had similar interest to most college guys. Music, sports, movies... Every thing I talked to her about just ended up with her having a glazed look in her eyes. She finally perked up when we talked about her being in equestrian club and we watched some of the Olympics which were on at the bar and grill we were at. I've never had that little to talk about with someone.
We ended up hanging out a few more times and making out, but we eventually parted ways. Damn she was hot, but it definitely wasn't meant to be.
More recent story:
After my divorce and a couple failed hook ups by my friends I tried internet dating. It is definitely hit or miss but I went on a few dates just to figure it out.
One of my first dates was a single mom from the East side of DSM. We met at a mexican restaurant for dinner and a few margaritas. We meet outside and she is just deathly pale and incredibly nervous. I do my best to make her feel comfortable and try to get to know her. A few minutes into the date she looks me in the eyes and says that she has something she HAS to tell me. Apparently she used to be a meth addict. She's been sober for 7 years but she thought she should tell me.
Okay, that's a bit more extreme than I was expecting, but we'll see what happens. Then she goes on to tell me about all her baby daddy drama. How she had to get the court to make him pay child support. How he often misses his time with her son and how his new girlfriend and also baby mamma is a big dramatic issue.
I take it all in stride and we have a nice dinner. Afterwards she asks if I want to go to a bar with her. Okay, that sounds nice and casual. Then when we get there she texts some of her friends and has them come hang out with us. A little odd but sure. We end up having an okay time playing pool and drinking, but the whole thing is just weird.
I ended up not going out with her again. A little too much drama and weirdness for me. She was definitely not hot enough to put up with all of that.
