It’s hard for me to say too much about second plus weddings. I know that if I ever became single, I wouldn’t ever remarry. I have three kids and there is no purpose to marry again, IMO. That’s just me though and I think some of it is if you’ve been married for a while. We have been for 26 years and I don’t wish for any more kids.My first wedding happened to be the same way. Neither of us wanted a big deal (or a church wedding for that matter), so we just had a ceremony at my parent's house.
Those who get divorced young I fully understand. I’m more talking about older folks like me.