46&2 just ahead of me
44&2. Believe me..I can empathize. It sucks. What sucks even worse is my wife doesn't work..at all. I don't even want to say how much I'm paying.
46&2 just ahead of me
44&2. Believe me..I can empathize. It sucks. What sucks even worse is my wife doesn't work..at all. I don't even want to say how much I'm paying.
I too am in the process of divorce, two young kids. Just had the Temp. ruling. The only happiness has been my kids and my cyclones. PM me if you want to chat.
Oh and as far as the kids go, I've learned one big thing since my separation last April; Maximize Daddy time as much as possible. Yeah you don't get to see them as much as mom, but damn it they are gonna have a blast.
Yeah I'm spoiling my boys a lot, but I have to squeeze a weeks worth of love into a few days a week. They know how much I love them and I know they miss me by how excited they get when I come to pick them up.
Yeah it sucks not to see them all the time, but I am a better dad now since it's just me and them. So much more one on one time and important moments.
And I always will. I haven't been posting much due to the legal hell that comes with divorce. I live in a boarding room, barely get to see my children, embarking in a new career, and playing credit card Russian roulette. I have lost 40+ pounds due to extensive workouts and turkey sandwiches. But I still believe in magic. This team has helped me the entire time during this complete crap storm. My daughter believes in magic, as do I. And my son is magical. No matter when this run ends, remember this: it will be okay as long as you believe in magic. The future is bright, both for me and our beloved Cyclones.
Ok, I'm just going to vent here since we were talking about being divorced with kids.
I just got a text from a girl I just started dating saying that me having kids was too much pressure for her. WTF? I wasn't asking you to adopt them or anything.
I care about my kids. Eff me right?
Ok, I'm just going to vent here since we were talking about being divorced with kids.
I just got a text from a girl I just started dating saying that me having kids was too much pressure for her. WTF? I wasn't asking you to adopt them or anything.
I care about my kids. Eff me right?
Ok, I'm just going to vent here since we were talking about being divorced with kids.
I just got a text from a girl I just started dating saying that me having kids was too much pressure for her. WTF? I wasn't asking you to adopt them or anything.
I care about my kids. Eff me right?
It sucks...but i can understand it. It IS a lot for a new person without kids to deal with. The relationship alone is tough....but the kids, the ex...takes a pretty tough person that understands they wont be number 1 in your life all the time....but better to know now.
Wow, how sucky of her. Probably doesn't help much, but you are better off without her,
Thank her for it. When I was dating as a single dad, the cut off line was whether I felt like introducing them to my son after it got to the point where it would be awkward not to do so. Most of my dating consisted of three to four dates.
Yeah I got two dates in this time around. But I did finally date someone since the divorce, so there's that. Just gotta get find someone better.
She was a hawk fan anyways.
You divorced guys....you need to find some divorced women. People talk about the 'hookup culture' of kids...from listening to a few divorced guys I know/knew...middle aged divorcees are hittin' it the same way. The early '50's guy I work with was telling me how he was talking to a young married guy, the young guy stopped him mid-sentence to say "Wait...did you just say 'one of the women I'm seeing'?"