BYU officially says "NO THANKS" to the Service Academy Conference, I mean Big East Conference. They never gave the Big 12 an official yes or no in the whole feeling out process.
I still think BYU/BSU or BYU/AFA is similar in value to Louisville/Cincy. There are plusses and minuses with either one. If you go to 14 that's your 4.
Big 12 is still not being predatory at all. The ACC took 6 teams from the Big East. The Big 12 simply took the one best athletic program available to replace a defector when it could have easily taken another 1-4 teams the Big East needs to be relevant.
TCU never played a Big East game and they're a more logical fit in the Big 12. That was just timing, not poaching.
"Predatory" is in the eye of the beholder. To the supporters of the Big East (all 50 of them), the Big 12 is no different than the ACC. The B12 encouraged the defection of 2 of their members (even though TCU never played a game, they were still desired by the BE). And they don't seem to care that WVU is ignoring their bylaws in the move. If (according to Neinas) eight months is too short of a time for the Big 12 to adjust to losing a member, why isn't it too short for the Big East?
To others, the SEC isn't predatory at all. They decided to accept entry from two schools that desperately wanted out of the Big 12. Maybe TAMU and MU wouldn't have left without an SEC invite, but they wouldn't have stopped trying to get out. That's not really "poaching" either.