If you listen to Urban talk about it last week, the clips themselves show little concern for domestic violence and he tries to cover up his own role in getting the wife to drop the charges in 2009. Urban with regard to 2009 says "they were a young couple" as if being young means you abuse your wife and that's ok, and then he says what was reported (to the police) is not what happened is if he thinks that she is making it up because she dropped the charges but he is the one who sent people to talk to her about dropping the charges. He also throws in comments like he shouldn't be bothered with questions about these incidents or have to deal with them because his focus is on winning and coaching or something to that effect.