Agree. Why should it matter? She's 23. Heck, she should be out of college by now. What is he? 35?
Umm because he is a contracted employee of the University. She is a student athlete. All kinds of NCAA rules could be broken from this. Everyting about it is wrong. He is a person in power. If he was dating a normal student it's no big deal. However, you can't be banging one of your players. That is pretty crazy to think it would be ok.