IMO, there is a difference between being upset about a lose and being irrational and rude.
For me being a cyclone fan is supposed to be fun, yes even if we lose. Really I find it more upsetting to come on the boards and read than to actually watch us lose. Its really like Iowa State University is a part of my family and even if we lose I still support them.
I have no respect for people who shout obscenities at games no matter how bad we are losing especially when they are directed at members of the team and even coaching staff. In many ways I think message boards and comment sections on newspaper websites have become a real negative for society and feed the natural tendancy to whine and moan about everything all anonymously but in a very public venue.
One of the main reasons I really enjoyed cyclonefanatic and to some extent still do was its positive nature compared to the scout and rivals boards. That has faded with cyclonefanatics increased popularity. I even think there was an uptick in negativity after the WHO special.
I think that in the end my outlook on sports in general is different than most peoples. I believe that the people that scream at games and rip on the teams constantly do care but I guess I just don’t view caring as an excuse for being a jerk.