But they wipe their own butts and put their own winter gloves on, correct???
We've resorted to bribery now
If the kid has clean chonies at the end of the day we'll pay him
Cash for clean....I guess.
But they wipe their own butts and put their own winter gloves on, correct???
At each age there are pluses and minus. Granted life is easier once they can do some of the little things for themselves like getting dressed, hygiene, cutting up their own food, but you also have them controlled for the most part. Once they get to MS/HS, they start to want independence, want to be with their friends, learning to drive, all before cell phones and GPS was totally different than today.Disagree. Watching your kids become fully independent adults beats wiping butts and cutting french toast into pieces for them. 10/10 would recommend. Just hang in there, it gets so much better!
At each age there are pluses and minus. Granted life is easier once they can do some of the little things for themselves like getting dressed, hygiene, cutting up their own food, but you also have them controlled for the most part. Once they get to MS/HS, they start to want independence, want to be with their friends, learning to drive, all before cell phones and GPS was totally different than today.
It's great to see them as independent adults, but I think the happiest time we had with our kids was when they were in elementary school, starting to play sports, its 60 minutes not 3 hours, all games in town.
You just have to learn to go with the flow and do the best you can.
the happiest time we had with our loved ones
Thank you. This made me LOL.Me: "Son. If your brother has something you want you need to wait your turn. Same thing if you have something your brother wants. Property rights, kid"
Son: "Want to see my penis?"
Me: "Good Christ...you aren't saying stuff like this at school?!?"
I try to lay down knowledge and I get responses like "Do dinosaurs poop"
So it's basically the same as when I managed a team at work.
Covid was def rough initially with the younger ages no question about it!Yeah I joke but I'll take the sass over when he woke every 45 min overnight as a baby. Or having an 18 mo old with no childcare for four months during covid. When we had two in '22 and they missed nearly 60 days of daycare.....I very well did lose my mind
I try to lay down knowledge and I get responses like "Do dinosaurs poop"
For future reference,
"Yes, son, yes, they did, but they don't now because they are extinct (*). Can you say coprolite? I knew ya could."
What is a coprolite? Mary Anning's unusual fossil discovery
Fossil poo may not be a glamorous fossil find, but it can reveal a lot about prehistoric animals.www.nhm.ac.uk
(*) or you could go into an explanation of gar fish and chickens, living dinosaurs, which all poop.
I've entered that vortex more than once. There is no end.
"Dad, so if Godzilla comes we have cannons to shoot him."
"Well. We have cannons at the park, but I was joking about using them to shoot Godzilla. Godzilla isn't real"
"OK. So when Godzilla comes...."
"Godzilla isn't real. It's only in movies"
Pause
"So when Godzilla comes....."
No better preparation for parenting than management experience. It's. The. Same. Thing.
Just walked past a student in our building who's wearing shorts and sandals. It was 32 degrees when I came to work.LOL on the winter gloves, those aren't cool. With the 1st wife we took her/our daughter to the St Paul Ice carnival when they built a big castle, it was COLD like sub zero, she chose to wear a tshirt denim jacket and torn blue jeans to go to it. After a bit we let her go back to the car and warm up.
I'm always amazed how many kids at ISU wear shorts to BB games in Hilton.
Some of us get to relive our childhoods at the end of life with roaring cases of dementia. Current theory says not to contradict folks who are having difficulty with temporal reality.
Another good strategy is to ask him what he thinks. Does he think cannons would stop Godzilla? Then, look up some good old Godzilla flicks on TCM and watch one together to see if they would.
IMHO, you should be flattered that Kiddo is (still) looking to you as a knowledgeable authority. That will change sooner than you would like.
Also a reason I never say no for a trip to the park. I know those days are numbered.
Want to go to the park? Absolutely! Grab your shoes!
As a high school teacher and father of a 7yo and twin 4.5 year olds...I could flood this thread on the daily.
"On the daily." Being around high schoolers all day every day appears to check out.As a high school teacher and father of a 7yo and twin 4.5 year olds...I could flood this thread on the daily.
Just walked past a student in our building who's wearing shorts and sandals. It was 32 degrees when I came to work.
I'm going to side with the kids on this one. I've never understood dressing for the 5 minutes it takes to walk from the car to wherever you are going vs. dressing for the activity you are going to. I get not wanting to be cold, but I would much rather freeze my ass off for 5 min, then sweat my ass off for two hours, or have to carry my coat or my ******* wife/kids coats around for 2 hours.Stop trying to judge others because of your poor circulation.
As long as it wasn’t cold enough that my kids would get frostbite, I let them figure it out. Learning from being cold is a lot better than me telling me to put a coat on.
As a high school teacher and father of a 7yo and twin 4.5 year olds...I could flood this thread on the daily.