I'm a married woman, not a man, but I guess my concerns are a little different. It appears your wife realizes this woman should never be around your children. Why does your wife value herself so much lower than your children? Doesn't she deserve better too?
One of the biggest issues with kids is that they really watch more what we do than what we say. Another big issue is the friends they choose. What your wife is showing them is that it is ok to leave them for a weekend so she can go off with a friend that makes so many bad choices that she can't be around them.
Also, if she insists on going, what would she think if you went too? (assuming there are relatives or someone to watch the kids.)
I guess my thought is that people really have no business around "friends" that are so irresponsible that they should never be around their children. Would she want your children to have friends like this?
One of the biggest issues with kids is that they really watch more what we do than what we say. Another big issue is the friends they choose. What your wife is showing them is that it is ok to leave them for a weekend so she can go off with a friend that makes so many bad choices that she can't be around them.
Also, if she insists on going, what would she think if you went too? (assuming there are relatives or someone to watch the kids.)
I guess my thought is that people really have no business around "friends" that are so irresponsible that they should never be around their children. Would she want your children to have friends like this?