Here is the key, those who have concerns may have an impact, either way.
It is called voicing opinions and if many have concerns, especially donors, I guarantee they may get listened to.
Expressing a concern on his playing is not being "pitchfork" There is no need to try and shout down either side of this discussion.
I am fine to leaving it to following university policy, but that does not mean I do not have concerns. It is possible that policy means he may not play regardless.
As I have stated, personally, if the quotes are accurate, it is the attitude and intimidation that concern me the most. My opinion would be adjusted based on all relevant facts and and any humility and remorse shown.
However. to be clear, imho, to say it is just a prank gone wrong, or suit them up unless rape or murder, I can only wonder wow.