Am I a bad person?

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cyrevkah

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I also am glad that they were able to talk. It's really hard when it's about an emotional issue to be objective
 

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My point is she isn’t a bad person (essentially what he was saying even if indirectly) for wanting to visit her parents over the holidays using the information she had available.

if we would have knowingly traveled half way across the country while supposed to be isolating (even with negative tests), we would be bad people.
 

cyrevkah

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My point is she isn’t a bad person (essentially what he was saying even if indirectly) for wanting to visit her parents over the holidays using the information she had available.
I think that goes back to the emotional part of the situation. It's hard to use another word.maybe should have said cautious.
 

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My point is she isn’t a bad person (essentially what he was saying even if indirectly) for wanting to visit her parents over the holidays using the information she had available.

I don't think being disappointed (Bannedman's words) in someone is the same as saying they're a bad person.

And thinking twice about passing on a regular cold to older folks isn't a bad thing either.
 
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Ok. We had a very intense conversation about being a good person and what that means. It’s about doing the right thing even though it sucks. I went to bed with a loaded up car and disappointed in her. And I told her that. Well she must have called her mom and finally it got across to her. alarm is shut off.
Yeah. I’m thinking that you believe you won the “war” when in fact this is going to create some issues in the future. Best of luck to you but happy wife….happy life.
 
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