And you know what? In a way I don't completely disagree here with you. If they would legalize it for a courtroom and call it a union it would be much less problematic/offensive for me. Its not the marital benefits for gays that I care that much about, I just hate to see the term marriage thrown around, because to most people (including myself if you're reading this honey:wink0st
marriage stands for a sacred thing. Now what I will say about it is that if they did go ahead and legalize this and call it a "union" and it wasn't officially a marriage, that 2 brothers or 2 sisters should be able to have a "union", and a man should be able to have a "union" with umpteen women or vice versa. Eventually I think it would have to get thrown out there and debated with the underage thing too, because everything "taboo" would have to be considered if you're leaving religion out of it. Not that I think any of this is right or going along with my beliefs, but I'm not going to get up in somebody's face and call them a sinner if they aren't imposing on me at all. I still would hope and pray that God would eventually show them His love and help them to change, but as I've stated before...it's not my job to change anybody, that's up to the Big Man Upstairs.