Random question for y'all.
Is Christmas fun for you? I keep hearing people mutter about some menial problem and then follow it up with that tired cliche "and that's why I hate the holidays"
My work really sucks leading up to holidays, but I still enjoy them. Even if I'm hosting an event and it takes a ton of prep work, I still look forward to them.
I understand if a tragedy happened around that time and you associate it with the event. Otherwise, what gives?
By the time I hit about 11-12, the holidays had gotten fairly stressful because of stuff with the grandparents. Trying to force you into going to their events, gift-giving to point out which grandchildren they didn't like, showing up at 11pm to ruin our nuclear family Christmas, my dad being cranky when we opened gifts.....So I guess I don't complain, but I don't get all rah rah time with family and traditions stuff because I just haven't had that experience. I think it will be a lot of fun once we have our own kids though. I'll probably look forward to it more then.